“.And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.” John 8:32
Hear this men.
In the realm of love and relationships, there exists a harsh truth that men must confront: women’s love is conditional. The notion that a woman will love you for who you are, unconditionally, is a myth. This truth may seem brutal, but it’s essential to acknowledge and understand why.
Unconditional love is often considered the ideal form of love, where one loves another without expectations, conditions, or limitations. However, this concept is a fallacy. Love is influenced by various factors such as;
1. Human limitations: Humans are capable of love, but it’s influenced by their experiences, emotions, and needs.
2. Conditional attachment: Our attachment styles, shaped by early relationships, influence our ability to love and be loved.
3. Evolutionary roots: Love and attachment evolved to ensure survival and propagation of genes, making them conditional upon certain circumstances.
4. Neurobiological responses: Love is a biological response to specific stimuli, releasing hormones like oxytocin and dopamine.
5. Reciprocity and expectations: Most relationships involve some degree of reciprocity, where love and affection are exchanged for emotional support, companionship, or other benefits.
6. Personal growth and change:As individuals evolve, their needs and values change, affecting their love and relationships.
7. Cultural and societal influences: Cultural and societal norms shape our understanding and expression of love, often tying it to specific conditions and expectations.
While love can be incredibly powerful and selfless, it’s essential to acknowledge that it’s often conditional upon various factors. This understanding encourages a more realistic and empathetic approach to love and relationships. Women are drawn to what they value in a man, whether it’s wealth, charm, good looks, or power. For most women, money, fame, and power make a man attractive. By focusing on building your value, particularly financially, you’ll increase your appeal to women and make life easier. This truth is not meant to be pessimistic but rather a wake-up call for us men to focus on building our magnetic power.
Instead of chasing women, let us strive to become the best version of our selves. This will not only increase our attractiveness to women but also lead to more authentic and fulfilling connections that will produce life.
In conclusion, love is complex and multifaceted, and acknowledging its conditional nature can lead to a more realistic and empathetic approach to love and relationships. Men, it’s time for us to be awaken to this harsh truth and make peace with it.
Focus on building your worth, and you’ll increase your magnetic power to appeal to female psychology.
~ Per Aspera Ad Astra ~
Bishop Jehoshaphat Quartey
President,
Jehoshaphat Educational Centre
Senior Pastor,
Intl. King’s-City Church
0243-871-000
